Abstract: We present "4Steps Re:Start" model of work with loss in coaching and bereavementin psychotherapy. The 4 steps of the model are: (1) working with thoughtsand beliefs, (2) giving sense to experiences and formulating a key message, (3) turningpoint-transition from survival to growth and (4) integration of life experience.In this article theoretical background, case studies and differences betweenthe use of the model in coaching and psychotherapy have been described.